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Male (45) looking for Female Eugene, Oregon, United States

I am a scientific rationalist. An atheist in the tradition of Dawkins, Hitchens, and Harris etc. I find it amusing that this site gives the option to declare our astrological signs, as astrology is not atheism. I found this site on a whim. I wanted to see if there was a site that was the antithesis of Christian Mingle...a concept that makes me laugh every time I see the add! Sure enough, here we are! But anywho.
I find myself comfortable in most situations. I love engaging in collegial conversation with intelligent people who can teach me new things and expose me to new ideas...and will embrace the experience if I should do the same for them. New food, new music, more music, new places and people, music. I like music. Make me laugh, I'll make you laugh. We can solve the world's problems through philosophic bitching...government, religion, geopolitical issues always seem to entertain over a few spirited beverages.
I'm retired military so I have a lot of time for such superfluous endeavors.
I have not ever, nor do I now have any inclination towards marriage or children.
Marriage is an antiquated institution designed to make love and sex a property rights issue. I will always be a free man, and I want to be with a free woman.
Kids are wonderful, but let's be honest, they are a pain in the ass and there are to many of us on this rock already.
This description is a bit heavy, but I assure you I'm not this serious all the time. I'm a goof ball really, I just like to get the core stuff out in the open from the get go.

Side note, this thing says I'm an Aquarius. I am not, I'm a Leo. Not that it matters.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildAthletic / toned
Height6' 5" (196 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBlonde
Hair LengthShort
Best featureHands
Body ArtStrategically placed tattoo
Health ConditionNo problems
My AttractivenessAttractive


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
Employment StatusRetired
Job TitleDirector of leisure and wandering

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Documentaries, Movies, Sports, Science fiction
Favorite TV showsO.I.T.N.B, Newsroom, west wing, flying circus, daily show, nova, nature, Frontline, any Anthony Bourdain show...
Favorite movies typesScience fiction, Comedy, Drama, Documentary, Adult
Favorite moviesSeems like these questions are things we would talk about upon meeting for the first time.
Music typesCountry, Rock, Metal, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, New age, Soul, Reggae, Folk, Punk
Favorite artistsAgain...why waste good topics of conversation? I'll give you Jeff Tweedy and the Wilco. Never go wrong with them.
Reading selectionBiography, History, Humor, Music, Philosophy, Political, Satire, Science
Favorite booksWhere the red fern grows-Wilson Rauls.
I read it when I was in fourth grade and it had always stuck with me for some reason.
Idea of funKaraoke! Oh yeah, I love it! Lol
Casinos, dive bars, going to several restaurants in an evening and just trying their appetizers. Camping, hiking, beach and lake time...this is Oregon, so much to do!
HobbiesReading, Learning, Music, Movies, Clubbing, bar Hopping, Travel, Cooking, Cars, Camping, Fishing, Playing cards, Gambling


SmokerSmoke regularly (5-10 a day)
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorOutgoing
Friends describe asPerfect
My great timeHanging out with friends, Partying, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Clubbing / bars, Reading a book, Going to a casino, Playing video games, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryThat thing from Flatliners where they kill each other and revive them a few minutes later to see whats on the other side. Crazy yes, but aren't you curious?


Political viewsLiberal
Attend religious servicesNever
Goal in lifeTo pass over wide eyed and smiling with the knowledge I squeezed the most out of this life that I could.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit
Look for in a partnerAcceptance and patience. Knowledge of herself in all facets. Trustworthiness. Confident and expressive sexuality. Independence, a woman who doesn't need me, but wants me several times a day.
On the first dateLet's find out!