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A Student of Life Seeks Companionship

Male (33) looking for Female Mesa, Arizona, United States

How does one describe themselves honestly and at the same time in a favoring light? We are creatures of whim and woe and I am no different from any other in that particular sense. I am driven by the whims of day to day life such as the necessity of the first needs; water, food, sleep, shelter; just as we all are. I am also subject to woe; I feel sorrow, pain, and distress. Sometimes, perhaps, I am a bit hyper cathartic with my writing and speaking, but I wouldn't be able to sing the blues well unless I was intimate with the feelings of loss, strife, and tragedy. Other whims I am subject to include glimpses of happiness and the appreciation of aesthetics in literature, as well as other forms of art; the written word just happens to be my preferred method of artistic creation. I enjoy nature tremendously; hiking, mountain climbing, learning of the useful plants for medicine and food. Spending weeks or even months among the high and lonesome places, alone from society but never alone from those others; the bees, the elk, the rabbits. There is much of me to tell and though I am not one to confide easily I would seek someone with whom I could confide and who would in turn do the same with me.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildA few extra pounds
Height6' 2" (188 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairBeard
Best featureEyes
Body ArtInked all over
Health ConditionBipolar
My AttractivenessAverage


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNot sure
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Have PetsDog
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusUnemployed

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Documentaries, Instructional
Favorite TV showsI mostly stick with educational and informative television. Most of the time I prefer a good book or the paper, however.
Music typesCountry, Rap, Rock, Metal, Classical, Blues, Reggae, Folk, Punk
Reading selectionNews, Anthology, Biography, Classic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Horror, Mystery, Nature, Philosophy, Poetry, Satire, Science, Science fiction, Technical, I'm an author
Favorite booksThe Republic-Plato
An Essay Concerning Human Understanding-Locke
The Histories-Herodotus
The Dream Quest of Unknown Kadath-Lovecraft
A Clockwork Orange (English Version)-Burgess
And many, many others...
Idea of funLively discussions over beer and wine, a week long trek through the wilderness, or sitting quietly reading and afterward talking of what was read.
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Theater, Cooking, Gardening, Camping, Fishing, Playing cards


SmokerSmoke heavily (10+ a day)
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorAnti-social
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Outcast
Sense of humorDry / sarcastic
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, Trying new things, Relaxing, Reading a book, Going to a museum


Political viewsLiberal
Attend religious servicesNever
Goal in lifeTo become a legitimate and published author.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerSomeone accepting and non-judgmental and who has similar views on the universe. Every romantic relationship I've had was with an individual who believed in god(s) and upon realizing my own beliefs were put off and therefore no longer interested, there were other reasons of course but the deal breaker has always been my atheism. Also, I'm not so much looking for romance or sexual favors, I'm seeking likeminded companionship. I know only one person, whom is a good friend, who is a confirmed atheist and I would have another if possible.