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I am content with myself & my life, I have lived many different *lives* and have learned a lot. My world is peaceful & creative, a nice place to be.

I am 63 and looking for a friend who might (you never know) turn into more and maybe even much more. I am unsure how to proceed, I have been out of the dating world for 23 years.

I love to read, I read all sorts of things, all over the place. I love movies, old, new, offbeat & sometimes bizarre.

Ok, here's 2 hints about who I am

1) I missed Woodstock but went to Altamont in CA in 1969

2) I don't wear make-up, it feels like a mask, what you see is all me

Yes, I am legally separated from my husband. After a 24 year marriage, we have been apart for almost 2 years now. We stay married so I can be on his health insurance. He lives in Texas, I don't.

I am looking for a gentle man with an edge, a smart man who is sometimes stupid, an adventurous man who is often cautious. A funny man who can be serious. A man who is taller then me. The ability to talk & listen, the sense to sometimes be quiet. A man who is ok alone and ok in company. A strong right arm, not that I need holding up but an anchor. I will be an anchor to him, as well.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildVoluptuous
Height163 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorLight brown
Hair LengthShoulder length
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusSeparated
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Have PetsCat
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

SpecialtyOther
Employment StatusSelf-employed

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesMovies, I don't like TV
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Horror, Thriller
Favorite movieshmm, I have limited interest in action movies but do not want to totally dismiss them, same with documentaries. Some are terrific and some are snoozers.

I love horror movies but the physiological ones, not body parts, please.
Music typesRock, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Gospel
Favorite artistsall old, I am stuck on old stuff. Love Taj Mahal. Love the blues
Reading selectionNews, Ancient, Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Home & Garden, Horror, Humor, Mystery, Philosophy, Reference, Satire, Science fiction, Technical
Favorite bookstoo many to name
Idea of funalways changing. Open to some things, not open to others. I love to read. I like to walk. Rides in the country, mountain views, interesting restaurants, compelling or diverting movies, good conversations, the occasional casino trip (I adore tacky old Atlantic city). Shopping (on-line only these days) antiquing. lively conversation, deep conversation etc etc etc.
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Reading, Movies, Internet, Dancing, Family, Dining, Photography, Travel, Gardening, Playing cards, Gambling, Computers, Shopping

Personality

Always wanted to tryThis, on-line dating. I think it is fascinating, the possibilities (endless) & the risks (emotionally & otherwise).

Views

Political viewsI don't like politics
ReligionAtheist
Attend religious servicesNever
Goal in lifekeep on living.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerJust in case you are wondering. My husband & I have been separated 2 years. We stay married so I can be on his health insurance. He lives in Texas, I don't.
The question. I am looking for the other half of me. His own person, as I am mine but someone with room in his life & his heart for me. I have been married 3 times plus had a (very) few significant relationships besides. I believe in love, despite evidence to the contrary. Love is easy, people are difficult but I still believe.
On the first datemeet (so tricky) and talk. Does it matter where or what venue? Listen, look. judge, feel, respond and laugh. Hope it is like that for him too.