I'll start by telling you my name... My name is Paul :), Please don't be intimidated by my appearance and stature. I may look like someone you don't want to sit next to on the train or bus... but i'm a real softy.. very "teddybear" like :P I know i typed a lot, but i do take these things seriously and really am looking for someone to spend a long time with and hopefully someone to ultimately spend my life with. Its hard to know anything about someone with only a few sentences about them. I actually like long "about me's" on dating profiles.. I go on more than just a pretty girl in a picture. I actually read profiles.

I love Heavy Metal music. It involves a big part of my life. I am a vocalist and i write my own lyrics for my band "Arduous Task". We've played quite a few shows so far and we are really taking the genre by storm. I've been in a few death metal bands as a vocalist, and i absolutely love the adrenaline. Eventually i want to learn bass guitar. I don't ever listen to anything mainstream. So i'm really out of touch with whatevers "popular". I'm not really that into sports, "What!? a guy thats not into sports?" :-P I hate baseball, its boring. Its like watching two guys play catch for 3 hours. The only sports i watch religiously is cage fighting and MMA. Another huge passion of mine is doing paranormal investigations. I was just recently at the Houghton Mansion in North Adams Massachusetts conducting a paranormal investigation. The Houghton Mansion was also featured on the Travel Channel's "Ghost Adventures". So it was real exciting.. caught some strange things on camera.

I'm also good with kids. Kids don't bother me at all. I get along very well with kids.. I have two nieces that adore me as much as i adore them. I thought i should add this important fact because i noticed a lot of single moms on the dating net. Kids love me for some reason. Im good at making them laugh I guess. Always thinking about having children of my own someday, so i don't mind if you have kids, they should always come first. :)PS.. (My best friend uses me in his punishment when dealing with his 9 year old daughter Vanessa(she is in my pictures if you want to see her), he tells her that if she doesn't study her spelling words, that I won't be allowed to come over and play with her lol. She's been behaving and studying her words ever since lol)

Oh, and i'm more than happy with the hoody sweatpants look. I am not or at all into image, so you don't have to look all jazzed up if you don't want to. If you wanted to wear a hoody and sweats on our first date, seriously, i would NOT care. :) I wear deathmetal t's and camo cargo pants all the time. I base nothing on image or style. Thanks for reading